The Importance of Being Honest

JohnGrayContinuing our quest to be a family out of sync with the modern world, we used part of our free day in Edinburgh to take the Book Lover’s Tour. Edinburgh has a long literary history that includes such writers as Sir Walter Scott, Robert Louis Stevenson, J. M. Barrie, and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle. A more recent star in that constellation is J. K. Rowling. The tour we took was led by the redoubtable Allan Foster, a geology student turned literary psychopomp. Although not associated personally with Edinburgh, Oscar Wilde had an unusual connection that made for an interesting tale. One of his male lovers, John Gray (a model for the eponymous Dorian) eventually became a Catholic priest, and lover of a wealthy Russian poet, Marc-André Raffalovich. When the Gray was assigned to St. Patrick’s in Edinburgh, Raffalovich was appalled at the state of the building and offered to finance a new church with the provision that his friend be appointed priest in charge. Thus the new building came to be and still stands on Cowgate.

Of course, nowhere is the priest or his lover, benefactor of the parish, mentioned in the church literature. Morality often parades as self-righteousness. Secret lives are not restricted to the clergy, of course. The fact is that people everywhere are human, and people are complex. So complex that we will sometimes carry on a charade to ensure religious respectability, to the point of having political candidates endorsed by clergy for issues that run counter to the very sources of their funding. Righteousness can be very costly, but self-righteousness comes cheap. Religious systems that demand standards that they can’t uphold either collapse or excel in duplicity.

When the tour was over, we walked by St. Patrick’s church. I wondered how many of the patrons knew the history of the lovely building they use for worship. Should they take a literary tour and learn the background of the church, would it make any difference? Ethics can be a matter of convenience, particularly when it is a matter of sexual propriety. Somebody else’s sexual propriety, that is. The real business of religion should be helping to improve authentic lives. Today it has often become the business of supporting the political system that bankrolls the special interests nearest to one’s heart. And reading, especially of unapproved materials, only gets in the way.

One thought on “The Importance of Being Honest

  1. Kirin Nielsen

    Hello Steve, and Kay and Kietra! Steve, your weekly email digest just showed up in my email, and I took a look. Scotland! Wow. The complications of returning to a place that was important to you are evident. I wonder whether I would feel similar things if I were to return to Ithaca and walk around Cornell’s campus? Much new construction there since I was there eons ago, plus other changes. I hope that all of you will find great reward in your travels. It must be quite exciting for Kietra.

    I was just thinking, “He’s up even earlier than usual!!” but then remembered that you are a good 7 hours ahead of Chicago time, and that it’s late morning for you. On the other hand, I am up at a ridiculous hour. I took Thursday, Friday, Sat. Sun. off, and will also be off of work tomorrow (though I actually must do a tremendous amount of work at home, anyway). When I get to a weekend or several days of vacation, I become quite nocturnal right away. It’s a very bad habit–I end up sleep-deprived, eat too much, and get onto a weird schedule that I have to break again in order to get to work the next day. Anyway… It’s very hot in Chicago, heat index upper 90s and likely to be hotter in a day or two. To put it bluntly: I hate hot, humid weather. It wears me down, stupefies my, and so on.

    Sorry to turn your comment place into a letter. I do enjoy reading your blog. A friend of mine — Shelley — has a wonderful blog called “Some disagree with mom.” Although her comments are much briefer and less frequent, you might enjoy them. She’s a very liberal Episcopalian, in her 70s, fellow graduate of Westminster Choir College, and she also has an interesting list of blogs that she follows. You might find something interesting there, too.

    My cat is prodding me to go to bed. She gets annoyed if I go to bed too late or sleep too long. OK, Jessie. I’m signing off.

    Please give a very warm hello plus hugs to Kay and Kietra.

    Have a safe journey,

    Kirin

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